The problem here (THE LITTLE) is that I am finding it difficult to start a new beginning. I know what my goal is, but I'm finding it difficult to really move forward because I'm stuck in a cycle (THE MAZE). I feel like I am moving in circles, always arriving at where I started. I feel confused and trapped in the current situation. I am uncertain of the path ahead. The cards are on point when it says that I'm facing a challenge with no clear solution. It feels like I'm always starting over, making progress, but then I always fall back to step one, and the cycle just continues. 

The reason for this is first, I have very impulsive emotions (THE THUNDER). I am having difficulty controlling the remnants of those powerful emotions that are still within me. This goes hand in hand with THE WINDY card, which represents communication (I'll leave it at that 😉). 

The solution is represented by the two cards: THE SHIELD and THE EARTHY. The Shield represents setting boundaries. I really have to establish firmer boundaries in this situation (again, very on point 🎯). The second card, The Earthy, means I need to focus on fundamental matters and the core components of the situation. I can't focus when I'm looking at the small details; I have to zoom out and see things in a practical way, the bigger picture. In that standpoint I will recognize why it happened that way and why I should work on myself to leave my current mindset. 

This leads me to the obstacle, which is THE ILLUSION, which represents the fears and desires that I have. It aligns with my previous reading, representing my delusion. I am being blinded by my own judgment and bias, making it difficult for me to move forward. 

However, the future is promising. THE DREAM represents a person's greatest wishes, desires, or fears. In this context, I feel it is a positive card because, even though I am confused right now, there is still hope and energy of encouragement and guidance. I will always be guided in what I need to do; I just need to have the strength of character to follow it. 😅The outcome is THE LIGHT. I am still in the midst of the journey, but eventually, I will see that things will go well. I will achieve my goal of hope and renewal. 

How others see this situation is THE CHANGE card. It means that other people see this as an opportunity for me to change my attitude and point of view, which is what everyone is telling me to do, but I am not really following. 🤣 This is the best time for me to start new lessons or pursuits and to be open to more possibilities. ✨

With this deeper interpretation of the cards, it is crystal clear what the Universe's message for me is today. I almost cried because, wow, even the cards are telling me to do what I already know, but I am not doing it. 

So, self, you've already received the answer. You know what to do. 😎

It's indeed scary how one conversation, one call, or one chat message, can suddenly shift your energy, making you reevaluate your priorities in your life. One moment today, I was so preoccupied with my work deadlines, even doing overtime at the office and not realizing there were only two of us employees still in the same floor doing some work (I realized this after taking off my earphones and realizing that apparently everyone on the floor had gone home 😅). I was actually still planning to do some work upon arriving home, but then another moment comes and I realize that I'll have to take an emergency leave to attend to some medical stuff in the family. Suddenly, those imminent work deadlines don't seem so important anymore. 

I have been ruminating these feelings in the past few days, and I already anticipated this event happening, but of course nothing prepares you until it happens. I was sitting with these emotions... of realizing that it's really a different kind of responsibility being the child who is the primary caretaker of both your aging senior parents. Anticipatory grief is always present (some days hit harder). And you know, this is just one fact of life. It's a hard pill to swallow, but my situation is nothing unique. But of course, that doesn't mean that it is easy. Now that I am experiencing this, I feel overwhelmed. 

I'm proud and grateful that I get to give back to my parents. My "giving love languages" to them are acts of service and gifts. I find joy in doing things for them and giving them stuff that I know they will enjoy. It's also a gift that I get to know them, not just as my parents, but also as people, with personalities, dreams, and experiences that are outside of them being my parents. As I grow older, I also got to realize that they are not perfect people. I see their imperfections, and I accept (or tolerate? 🤣) them.

It's a different kind of mental weight to realize that your life pillars are now relying on you, especially now that I am in this stage of relearning to rely on myself. I'm realizing that I need to really take care of myself more, so that I could better take care of the people (and animals 🐶😸) that are depending on me. I have to take care of myself holistically (physically, mentally, emotionally) so that I can be the best version of myself and be there to support the people (and again, animals 🤣) that are important to me.

But you know, as an overthinker, my emotions tend to sway to the extremes. Fortunately, I am learning to manage this. My resilience has been tested and built to be stronger through my experiences in the last few months, and perhaps it was divine timing that it happened. Through that experience, I have learned the tools that are effective for me in regulating my nervous system. One of them is writing on this blog. 😉This is the reason why I'm here again, writing this. I am again emotionally dumping on the blog. 😅 One of the traits that I learned of myself is that in relationships (platonic or romantic), I tend to always be the listener. I enjoy listening and supporting the people that are important to me (as long as I have the social battery for it 🔋). However, on the other hand, I find it difficult to ask for help. This is related to my pattern of putting other people's needs first before mine. I'm working on it, but it still feels challenging for me to be the one that initiates sharing my woes and worries in a conversation. This is why I'm so thankful for my friends who know me well and recognize this tendency of mine. With just one "by the way, how are you" message inserted in our conversation opens the floodgates for me. 🥹

I also learned that I have to be my own cheerleader. I have to be my own biggest supporter and best friend. No one will come and save me, but myself (a homage to the lesson in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban). I will be relying on myself in this lifetime, and so I need to cultivate a good relationship with myself. That positive energy, for sure, will ripple to the people around me.

This particular life situation is still unfolding for me, and the safest space for me to emotionally unload... is this blog. 😅 Writing my feelings out helps me to really process them. Journaling feels like that Harry Potter spell wherein you extract a memory from your head and place it in a basin (what is it called again?) and examine that memory as an outsider. I feel like that is what I'm doing here, but instead of memories, I am dealing with my emotions. During journaling, I would cry, and I realized that it's a healthy way to process emotions. Before, I used to cope with negative emotions by suppressing them, and just allowing myself to shut down and not feel anything. But because of my recent life experiences, I realized that that's not the way to go. And so now I'm on the other side of things. I am now feeling the feelings, embracing the wave of emotions as they flow through me.

I need to be there for my parents, especially my mother. My mom is a strong-willed person, but I realize she has the impulse to panic and to think too much (I guess I now know where I got the trait from 😅).  She is the kind of person who gets stressed riding planes because she's so afraid of turbulence. The last time we flew, she held my hand during a very slight turbulence. Meanwhile, I am the kind of person who enjoys turbulence as if it's a roller coaster ride. The wilder the turbulence, the more I enjoy it. 🤣I mean I do imagine the worst-case scenarios to happen during that time, but then I just think, well at least the end would be instant (excuse the morbid thoughts).

I can just imagine her train of thoughts anticipating this experience. I pray that she gets to sleep and rest well before her operation. I pray that she doesn't think too much of it and to let her know that we, her family, are there to support her. For myself, I'm just anticipating that being in the waiting area of the operation room will be an emotional experience for me, so I am praying those same prayers for myself. 

I had to drop everything at work; the deadlines occupying my headspace for most of the day are not my top priority anymore.

I'm praying for the best outcome. I'm praying for my mother's health and for everyone in the family as we all go through this. I know some friends read this blog, so if you've read this far, can I make a request for prayers for my mom? That would mean a lot. Thank you. 🥺

I used to do these kinds of readings since last year. My last moon phase reading was in December, but due to various circumstances, I wasn't able to make this a regular practice since the start of the year. I got distracted, and life happened.😅 Now that things and energies are settling down in my space, I want to go back to the tools that helped me stay grounded in the past. Tarot card reading has always been a tool for me, allowing me to reflect on my emotions and feelings.

This is not just any full moon reading; for the month of September, the full moon also coincides with a total lunar eclipse. The full moon for September occurred on the 8th. Curiously, this date held another layer of significance for me. Because of these reasons, I felt that it was very important for me to do the reading during the peak of the lunar eclipse, which was around 2 a.m. Even though I was experiencing some emotional struggles and I was running short on sleep, I wanted to wake up during the wee hours of the morning to do this for myself and reflect with the cards during this special time.

I used my Phantomwise Tarot card deck, following the Celestial Navigation Spread.

Card 1: Depicts the current position or circumstance

The first thing that came to mind was this: I am in the midst of resting after a battle. I see a man sitting on a throne, holding a sword, which signifies that he is currently resting. This reflects my own position, as I have gone into a very monumental battle and am now taking a moment to rest. I am proud of my accomplishments so far. It feels like I am in a state of rest, trying to conserve energy and refresh myself. I am sailing in clarity, reason, and intellectual authority. 

Well this is true. The course that I was currently sailing needed a composure that didn't have any emotional attachment so as to clearly assess the situation and approach it with reason and practicality. 

Card 2: A tool that may be used to aid on a journey

The card is saying that in my current journey, I will be able to use my ability to step back, detach briefly, and look at my situation with new eyes. I am being reminded of emotional awareness. I should not wallow in discontent or get lost in daydreaming.

Very on point! 🎯✨This has been my goal for the past weeks since I was processing a breakup.

Card 4: A point to keep constant

This card shows my ability to see the bigger picture and lead with inspiration

"This serves as a reminder of emotional openness, curiosity, and vulnerability that are still waiting to be fully embraced." It's about new emotional beginnings.

First thing that came to mind: a new relationship? Hmm I am not sure if I am ready. I will stay in the mentality that "I don't chase, I attract." I will continue working on myself and maximizing my time in this world. I will craft my life as a whole person. If another person comes into my life, so be it. But I will accept him because I choose to, not because I need him, or because I'm lonely and I fear being alone. I have learned that relationships shouldn't be like that. And so for now, I am working on myself to become a whole and complete person on my own.

I guess I can now officially call him my ex. 😅

The third pain is the pain of compassion, the pain of understanding those who hurt us. I was mostly affected by this one because it resonated well with my current situation. 😅 The priest wrapped up his homily by asking, 

I very well know which one I'm currently carrying right now, since I'm still processing how and why someone who I deemed the closest and most important person to me, is the same person that had the capacity to hurt and abandon me. 😔I felt comforted receiving this message from God. I believe that He is helping me understand the purpose of this pain and so as not to end up hating the other person. Because hatred will not help in my healing in the long run.

There were still moments throughout the day wherein I was feeling a lot of mixed emotions. Sad. Angry. But always restless. I know we had an arrangement to meet again in the future. I'm just wondering how we would reconnect. I felt like the arrangement was not clear to me anymore because I wasn't really able to think and absorb things properly during the evening that it happened. I was actually not sure if that date still held true. But I didn't want to think much about it. I have a lot of time before that comes.

He will always be part of my life. He told me that I already made a mark in his life. Likewise.

With how things are going, I need to learn how to be open to any kind of outcome. For now, I will continue to process these emotions. I will continue to receive those waves of emotions as they arrive. I will feel them, process them, and then I will learn how to move on.